It is not the rituals, customs and traditions that change over the time but
the celebration styles and perspectives that become contemporary. For
centuries this festival has been celebrated in the same way. The traditions
are followed with the same enthusiasm. The gaieties have only blown up to a
large scale. It is the celebration of the chaste bond of love amongst the
siblings
The preparations begin much in advance. Some twenty days ahead of the
festival you can see colorful rakhis in the market. Girls start the shopping
and preparations quite early. The shop for new clothes and buy rakhis
specially the ones that have to be sent to the brothers staying far. The
sweet shops, the garment shops, gift shops, all are flooded with things to
attract people.
On the Raksha Bandhan day, the festivities start by the day break. Every
one gets ready early and gathers for the worship of the deities. After
invoking the blessings of the Gods, the sister performs brothers arti,
puts tika and chawal on his forehead and ties Rakhi amongst chanting of
mantras. Then she gives him sweets and gifts. The brother accepts her
offerings and vows to take care of her and be by her side in the time of
need. As a token he gives the sister a return gift and sweets.
The Raksha Bandhan ceremony ends here and the celebrations begin. The
family reunion itself is the reason for celebration. Tasty dishes, sweets,
gifts, sing and dance and what not. Any Indian festival is incomplete
without this.
For those siblings who for distances are not able to meet, it is a day for
remembering the bygone time when the day was celebrated together. Emotions
are expressed through e mails, e cards, rakhi greeting cards, and rakhis
through internet or mail. Nothing on this day can stop the overflowing
emotions.
Congregations like Rakhi Mohotsavas were started by Rabindra Nath Tagore in
Shantiniketan. He started this to propagate the feeling of brotherhood
amongst people. This invoked trust and feeling of peaceful coexistence. The
festival for them is a symbol of harmony. The tradition continues as people
tie rakhis to the neighbors and close friends. It is a festival denoting
National sentiments of harmony.
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